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Img7.png"It's not something for somebody in their 40s to do, someone who's had a life as a man, - - - If you're 18 or 20 and never had the kind of (advantages) I had, and you're oriented in that direction, sure, go ahead and make right what nature didn't. But if you're a 45-year-old man and you're an airline pilot and you have an ex-wife and three adolescent kids, you better get on Thorazine or Zoloft or Prozac or get locked up or do whatever it takes to keep you from being allowed to do something like this.''  - Renée Richards (Associated Press, Feb. 1999)

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Sex changes are not effective, say researchers There is no conclusive evidence that sex change operations improve the lives of transsexuals, with many people remaining severely distressed and even suicidal after the operation, according to a medical review conducted exclusively for Guardian Weekend tomorrow.

The review of more than 100 international medical studies of post-operative transsexuals by the University of Birmingham's aggressive research intelligence facility (Arif) found no robust scientific evidence that gender reassignment surgery is clinically effective.

The Sex-Change Charade Gender gymnastics are going on out there. Transsexuals disenchanted with their chromosomal selves are having parts lopped off or stitched on in attempts to change sexual identity.

They hope to override male XY or female XX hardwiring – thinking a newly configured appendage or cleft re-defines gender. And they enlist a surgeon to mutilate the body accordingly.

These tortured souls don't need draconian measures to align their physical exterior with confused gender suppositions – they need psychological and spiritual truth that frees them to celebrate the skin they're in.

Surgical Sex, by Paul McHugh the Vatican's advisor on sexual matters, a member of the President's Council on Bio-Ethics.

Paul McHugh, M.D. Henry Phipps Professor of Psychiatry and former Director of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, and Psychiatrist-in-chief of the Johns Hopkins Hospital. His writings include Genes, Brain, and Behavior (1990) and essays on assisted suicide and the misuse of psychiatry.  Paul McHugh is universally disliked by the transsexual community.

Venus Envy In a recent issue of a popular woman's magazine, there was an article entitled, "Boys will be Girls." It told about the effects of the feminist movement upon the gender confusion that prevails in our society today.

Psychiatric Misadventures, by Paul McHugh

About Gender Identity Disorder

About Gender Dysphoria

Chemicals and the Brain - Part 1

Chemicals and the Brain - Part 2

Support Sites for Transsexuals - Education for Family and Friends

The Transsexual Point of View

More Transsexual Point of View

Transsexual Roadmap

Transsexuals - Life From Both Sides Link to a book that supports transsexual life.

Passing and Living in Fear

Bureaucratic Hurdles to Overcome:

Transsexual Results

Family Relationships 
The author of this article really has no idea why families have trouble readjusting to their transsexual.  The primary reason being there is no one to help them through the transition.

Transgender: Nature, Nurture and When It All Goes Awry
Unlike most men, Yosef Kirchner, 41, would love to be able to shave every morning. He’d also like to become a husband and a father. But for now, that dream is on hold. 

Thanks to a series of painful “reassignment surgeries” that took place 16 years ago, Kirchner looks like a woman – with large breasts, curvy hips, high cheekbones and no visible Adam’s apple. He also has a full set of female genitalia.

Things in Common Among Transsexuals
by Jerry Leach

Out of a sampling of 80 personal interviews with full-time pre and post-operative transgendered males, the things held in common by them are:
* A distant or absent father-figure while growing up
* A very involved mother
* Perfectionist tendencies that obstruct inner peace
* An inner sense that his masculinity does not match that found in others.

Be Very Very Sure Before You Give Your Blessing FOR GRS

Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman, especially when you used to be a man.

Sandra MacDougall - an ex-soldier formerly known as Ian - took four years and £10,000 of NHS cash becoming a woman.

But Sandra has revealed that she wishes she was still male.

Family Pain