People who choose to live their lives from the point of view of personal accountability and responsibility show similar attitudes, beliefs and results: 

IF IT IS TO BE IT IS UP TO ME

I CHOSE THIS SITUATION

THERE ARE NO ACCIDENTS

I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR GETTING WHAT I WANT IN LIFE

NO ONE IS GOING TO DO IT FOR ME

NO ONE IS "DOING IT" TO ME

KNOW THAT INTENTION AND COMMITMENT ARE THE KEYS TO A GOOD LIFE

FOCUS ON THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE

ACCEPT LIFE AS IT IS

KNOWS THERE IS NO RIGHT, WRONG, SIN, GUILT

LIVE IN INTEGRITY AT ALL TIMES

HAVE FULL HAPPY LIVES

HAVE MANY CLOSE AND INTIMATE FRIENDS

ARE CAPABLE OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS

DO NOT WATCH, LISTEN TO, OR READ NEWS

DO NOT ENGAGE IN THE BAD THINGS THAT HAPPEN

DO NOT WORRY OR FEAR

ARE ASSERTIVE

HAVE HIGH SELF ESTEEM

ALLOW OTHERS TO BE IN SERVICE TO THEM

DO NOT WORRY WHAT OTHERS THINK OF THEM

HAVE STRONG SPIRITUAL IDENTITY

ARE IN TOUCH WITH THEIR DEEPEST BELIEFS AND FEELINGS ARE NOT AFRAID TO HAVE WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE GIVE LOVE, RESPECT, ACCEPTANCE WITHOUT CONDITION

ALLOW OTHERS TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN FEELINGS

ATTEND UPLIFTING, POSITIVE STATEMENT ENTERTAINMENT

LISTEN TO UPLIFTING MUSIC

EAT WELL BALANCED DIETS

TAKE FEW DRUGS OR MEDICATIONS

LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY

ALLOW GOD'S WILL TO BE DONE

ACCOUNTABILITY THE KEY TO PEACE

Accountability is the least understood and a most necessary component of personal and spiritual growth.  The ability to own accountability for your life will empower you to achieve results beyond your wildest imagination.

Many searchers "GET IT" that there is no easy answer, no one way to correct or change life situations, no magic bullet, no one cause, no quick pill or potion to fix what is wrong.  These are the masters who are architects of their own lives, people with lifetime joyous results.  Accountable people know they must accept lifetime attitude and lifestyle changes in all three areas of their lives, SPIRITUAL (not to be confused with religion), emotional, and physical.  Until all three are in alignment no true lasting improvement, joy, peace, or prosperity can exist.

Man is so incredibly ingenious that he can find ways to blame others and situations for his/her problems, and thereby create a role of victim of life rather than architect. 

Humans are so creative that when medicine comes up with a cure for current diseases we create new diseases.  We are getting better at it as time goes along.  New diseases that defy identification and cure are constantly appearing. AIDS being one of the most recent.  We've had many in the past, and will have more devastating problems in the future. 

Those who live life as victims will always find a belief, disease, injury or other condition such as abusive partners and failing lives to prove them right, even to the point of dying.  Those who choose an accountable lifestyle also come into daily contact with beliefs, illness, injury, relationship, and failure opportunities, yet they never embrace them.  They are healthy well balanced physically, mentally, and spiritually and have no reason to live in depression, anger, or guilt, or end their earthly life experience until they are ready.  Then they depart in peace.

Embracing accountability brings forth tremendous personal joy, peace, and power in your life.  As you accept full accountability for your life and experiences of it, you place yourself in the position of changing your circumstances, beliefs and results. 

At all times and in all instances in your life you are the only person who can be 100% accountable for your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.  You are the only person who can account for your experience of your life.  You have always had three possibilities in every instance to manifest your accountability. 

1. CREATE YOUR RESULTS:  You write the script, cast the characters, direct the play and make sure everything comes out just as you planned. 
2. PRODUCE YOUR RESULTS:  In this program someone else wrote the script but you jumped right in and assisted them in casting, direction and every other function assuring the results. 
3. ALLOW YOUR RESULTS:  You sit back and let everyone else run the show and then complain about the results and become a victim of their efforts.

PRICES AND PAYOFFS:  At all times you will have a PRICE to pay and a PAYOFF to receive in achievement of your life as either a victim or accountable party.  As you discover what your payoff is you can also discover what your thoughts and beliefs are.  Many times we pay horrendous prices to be right about our payoffs.  Often the payoff is not positive but instead it is a verification of deeply held beliefs about self and others.  An example:  A woman who continually attracts abusive men into her life does so to prove her beliefs about herself, possibly; that she does not deserve a kind and gentle man.  This would be a deeply held belief that she is unaware of but continually manifests in her life.  Or, she may attract abusive men because she was raised by an abusive man and "knows" in her deepest unconscious beliefs that all men are like her father, so she attracts similar men and "proves" all men are "jerks" or abusive.

ACCOUNTABILITY IS NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH RESPONSIBILITY

ACCOUNT-ABILITY:  Defines your ability to account for how you chose to experience your life experiences. At all times you are the only person who can account for how you experience any given situation Only you can control how you emotionally react to any stimulus, and only you can control the choices you make relating to that experience.  Your accountability for your life and everything in it exists solely because you are there.

RESPON-SIBILITY:  Defines your ability to respond to the events in your life.  You may find yourself in circumstances where your ability to respond and control a situation is limited or non-existent.  In this type of situation your are not responsible for what happened, but you are responsible for how you emotionally react to what happened, the choices you make about yourself and others, and the attitudes you assume as a result of any given incident.

RESULTS:  Your results will always indicate what your beliefs are. 

1. Beliefs are held in the subconscious in a state of amnesia, the only clue to your beliefs is your results.  If life is not serving you the way you consciously want than look to your results and emotions to discover the beliefs that are tripping you. 
2. Clean up the beliefs, become accountable for your life, and God and life will SHOW-UP for you in ways that will truly amaze and serve you.